As business owners and entrepreneurs you’ll need to embrace networking, I highlighted 10 escape routes out of the 9-5 in my recent article on how to start a profitable business from home. So whether you want to consultant, freelance, or create online courses, networking will help you get the word out.
Networking can feel a bit daunting for many, the idea of walking up to strangers at an event to spark up a conversation may fill the average person with panic, anxiety and clammy hands. For some, networking comes naturally, but if it doesn’t here are some tips to help you along your way.
Breathe – Take a deep breath and relax. Remember if you’re at a networking event, that everyone present is there for the exact the same reason as you, to network and make connections. Try doing some deep breathing exercises, where you breath in on the count of four, hold for the count of four and slowly release your breathe for the count of four. It helps to calm you down.
Attending events – There are events for literally every industry, be it tradeshows, meet up events, conferences, breakfast seminars, lunch events, they all provide great networking opportunities. Make sure you are researching and attending relevant events to make new contacts.
Online interaction – Don’t forget there are plenty of opportunities to network online via social platforms, like LinkedIn and Facebook where you can find various groups to engage with. As well as Instagram and twitter where you can participate in Tweet chats, such as ‘#Bizhour’ that provide an opportunity to network with others from various locations around the world.
Be visible – There’s no point going to network and then hiding in the corner, let your presence be known, go and introduce yourself and don’t forget to bring your business cards. If you forget them, why not add your new contacts on LinkedIn –the professional networking platform.
Be yourself – Don’t feel the need to put on false pretences or inflate the truth in order to impress others, we are all at different stages in our life journey. Yes, you’ll want to make a good impression, but you can do that by being your true authentic self, there is only one you after all.
Listen attentively – Networking allows you to tell others what you are doing and about work you have planned coming up but be aware of not going on and on about yourself. You don’t want to take over the conversation, it’s important to listen attentively to those you engage and interact with, whether online or offline.
Be confident and thoughtful – Networking takes some confidence, you have to belief in yourself and your expertise. Sell yourself and your skills, but also be helpful. If you meet someone that isn’t looking for your service, but you happen to know someone else who can help them, why not connect them. It’s good to help others and leaves a good impression. What goes around comes around, helping others to connect will help you in the long run. It’s nice to be nice.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions – We often over think things, we may have a question or want an introduction, some advice, whatever it is ask. Nothing ventured nothing gained so if you don’t ask you won’t get. Ask the burning questions you have, no such thing as stupid question.
Don’t be afraid to circulate – Sometimes you can get into a comfort zone speaking to people that you really connect and gel with. You may have lots in common which great, but remember to keep your eye on the goal, which is to network so be sure to circulate and be polite in making your exit.
Long-term vision – Making new contacts is the point of networking, but more often than not, it’s the long-term relationships that lead to work and business deals being made. Focus on developing mutually beneficial relationships and think long-term. They may not need you now but maybe in the future. Stay in touch and keep it genuine and professional.
Remember to Follow-up
Following up, sounds like an obvious thing to say and do, but you’d be surprised at how quick things can slip our minds, we networking get back home put the new business cards down and get distracted with work. Its super important to follow up with the contacts you’ve made. Instead of putting down the business cards to collect dust, take some time the following day to send an email letting the new contacts know it was great to meet them and to stay in touch. It’s also a good chance for you to remind them of the services you offer and that you are there to help if needed.
Keep your word
If you make a contact and promise to do something for them, be sure to get it done. You don’t want to look flaky and unreliable by not following through with something you specifically told someone you would do. Not a great way to make an impression.
I wrote this for MBA World:
How To Become A Consultant; A Guide To Free Yourself From The 9-5’. Available from Amazon, iBook, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and other online platforms.
As a straight talker I’ll happily share that, most of the time when someone mentions starting an online business there’s a catch, they’re trying to sell you something, or get you to sign up to their program, be it a coaching program or a network marketing program where you sell other people’s products and the list goes on.
I’ve been to lots of seminars and events where you have a coach saying the best online business is to become a coach and of course they are selling coaching courses. Have a look around YouTube and you’ll find lots of people talking about starting an Amazon FBA business and it just so happens that they have a course you can purchase.
Don’t get me wrong, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with any of this, I have written and published a book and I am selling a course, but I won’t tell you that it’s the only way to become successful in business. My DIY PR course is about adding skills to your amour and my book is about taking your current skills and using them to consultant – where you can work from home and choose the hours you work, like I do.
The truth of the matter is for you to have a successful online business that you enjoy, it needs to be something you are passionate about. An online business that you will happily, and willingly commit to, and show up for on a daily basis. There is no quick scheme or magic pill to take that will result in you waking up to a thriving business and your bank account overflowing with money. So really you have to look within and be honest with yourself. Why? Because as corny as it may sound, YOU my friend have the answers inside, only you can identify what interests you, your passions, the thing you’ve always wanted to do but been to scared, or the what you enjoy doing that doesn’t feel like work for you.
Remember that you’ll be the one putting in all the work so it needs to be something that genuinely interests and excites you and of course has appeal to your target audience so you can make some money and have financial freedom.
There are lots of online business models that you can explore, you may already have ideas or perhaps not sure where to start, but you know you don’t want to be where you are now. Go check out my free guide on ‘How to start a profitable online business’ where I suggest 10 online business models and the steps you need to take to get started right away!
Don’t forget if you’re serious about getting your vision off the ground, you can sign up for accountability sessions with me to stay on track! How many times have we said we’ll do something but end up putting it off or talking ourselves out of things? We’re human so yes that does happen, so that’s why accountability is a must and is so critically important, look around…how do you think top athletes and entrepreneurs get to the top of their game.
I watched a program yesterday and one of the scenes really hit home, the protagonist was faced with a challenging situation and was having very unhelpful and rather funny conversations with herself. I thought to myself…hmm I do that, we all do that, but as it was a comedy, we could hear her thoughts. I’m grateful it isn’t like that in real life, can you imagine what it would be like if we could hear everyones thoughts..a hilarious nightmare!
But I digress, in all honesty the conversations we have with ourselves can literally make or break us. How many times do you have negative thoughts, thinking you’re not good enough for this, that or the third. I’m no different, we all have fears and self-limiting beliefs. It may come from a lack of confidence or a lack of support or something entirely different. No matter how these limiting thoughts came about we can and need to give then the boot! Yep they need to hit the road Jack!
Yes, sometimes you have to tell that voice in your head telling you that you can’t do it to shut up, not sure how, listen to Stormzy or watch MR T from the A-Team…if you can find it. The truth is that we tend to have more negative thoughts that positive, which means we have to work harder to keep ourselves motivated.
If you’re a business owner or entrepreneur you can surely relate. When you are starting or running a business you are juggling lots of things at the same time. With so much to do its not uncommon to feel overwhelmed at times, that voice may say ‘what are you doing, you’ve left your job chasing your dreams but you’re an idiot you won’t make it’. Some people listen to this voice and give up, but if you really want to achieve your dreams, (which you can) you’ll have to be prepared for that internal battle which is one of the hardest. I came across this image the other day and I thought it was spot on!
To be successful and to achieve your dreams you constantly and consistently have to be having a word with yourself! That means doing your daily affirmations and reminding yourself of your strengths as well as focusing on what you are grateful for. I heard a motivational speaker say what you focus on expands…where is your focus and do you need to adjust your lens?
Have a great week and get your matrix on..dodge all the rubbish and focus on the good stuff.
I joined Sara Troy on Self discovery radio & TV to discuss building your business as a consultant. I argue that going it alone doesn’t need to be high risk and you don’t have to come up with a ground-breaking idea.
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I recently wrote a feature for New Business magazine – grab a copy and check it out.
Being a consultant offers you the chance to work for yourself while passing on the benefits of your experience to others. Ebony Gayle author of ‘How to Become a Consultant’, offers some tips on how to make a success of it.
In life we have good and bad days but no matter what, you must not give up on yourself, keep on moving and pushing forward. ~Ebony Gayle
Escaping the rat race is a desire for many, research published last month revealed that more than half of all UK employees are unhappy in the work place. Many can relate to being unhappy in their job, the realities of spending more time at work then we do with our loved ones, and with the UK retirement age set to increase in the coming years, it doesn’t exactly incite excitement in the average person.
So, how happy are those that have escaped the 9-5? A study last month of 5,000 workers concluded that self-employed people are more successful in their careers and felt happier in their job. Statistics show that self-employment is on the rise, if you are thinking about a way to exit the workplace here are 10 routes to explore:
Work on your mind-set, if you’re serious about escaping the 9-5 tied to your desk culture, it’s vital to take time to work on your confidence and resilience. Working for yourself is empowering and rewarding but also challenging, you have to keep yourself motivated throughout it all. Positive can-do attitude alongside action is imperative.
As a consultant you are paid to share your professional knowledge with clients to help them achieve their goals. Anyone can consultant as long as they have the necessary skills set. It’s a great way to escape and to earn well whilst you do so – this is the route I opted for.
What do you do in your spare time? Whether you make jewellery, paint, do people’s hair or make- up, there could be an audience waiting for you. With hard graft and commitment, you can build on this and eventually turn your side hustle into a full-time gig and quit your day job.
There are lots of people making money online. If you have an eye for spotting bargains aimed at a niche markets, why not explore an e-commerce business, or create a website to review products. Do some research and you’ll see the potential in this area is limitless.
Setting up as a seller on eBay or Amazon platforms can be extremely lucrative, and whilst it is becoming more popular, with the right product and marketing you can be on your way to leaving your workplace.
Do you have a great personality that translates on screen? Why not look at becoming a Youtuber. With passion, hard work and dedication it’s proven to be a rewarding and lucrative route for many.
If you do it right, target the right niche, remain consistent, it’s a great way to build a passive income that can over take your salary.
There are always people looking to learn new skills, so why not share your knowledge and get paid for it.
Everyone has a story in them, so why not consider penning a book or creating an audio book.
Websites like Upwork and Fivver, allow you to sell your services, such as copy writing, graphic design and social media management. You don’t even need a website so can start earning ASAP.
Remember whichever route appeals to you, do your research, be diligent and determined so you can reap the benefits of success!
Written for and published on Female Fist.
Remaining in a job you hate is more common than you realise, even if you’re high up the corporate ladder. This is something I identified with, that was, until I left my comfortable management position to become my own boss and freed myself from the 9-5.
Before I took the leap, I had to re-evaluate myself. I wanted to make a career change but to be honest, I was a bit scared to step-up. I soon realised that I was getting in my own way of progression – why? Because of the types of conversation I was having with myself. We can often be dismissive and quick to diminish our own self-worth.
How many times have you talked yourself out of opportunities? How many times have you told yourself you are not good enough or just lacked self-belief to go for what you really want in life? Don’t deprive yourself of your goals and aspirations any longer, it’s ok to be different and do things your way.
If you are at a careers cross road, no matter where you are in the corporate chain, here are eight signs you need to say goodbye to your 9-5.
1. You’re unhappy on a daily basis – Everyday feels like blue Monday and Friday is the best day of the week because it’s the last. You hate being at your job and you are only there because you have to pay your bills. You live for the weekends and holidays and dread when Monday rolls around.
2. Dark mornings – When you first started, you used to bounce out of bed, now it takes everything within you to get yourself moving. You feel down and depressed, lack energy and drive, and get that horrible sinking feeling in your stomache at the thought of going into work.
3. You’ve out grown the job – You don’t feel like you are learning any new skills and it’s no longer challenging you. In fact, you feel like your job is de-skilling you and you only stay there because its comfortable.
4. You are first place in the rant-athon – You are always ranting and complaining about your job, at every chance you get. The dislike for your job has taken you over, whether you are with family, friends, out for dinner, at the gym or walking your dog – you can’t help but moan about your job because you feel, unappreciated, undervalued and unhappy.
5. Lack of passion – Your passion has been replaced with boredom. What once excited you about your role, is now boring you mindless. You finish your work ahead of time and end up surfing the net.
6. Unhealthy habits – You are not sleeping well, you don’t have much of an appetite or are over eating. You find yourself turning to drink or drugs as a way to escape and turn down invitations to meet up with friends and family as you’d rather stay at home with a bottle of wine, or just want to hideaway.
7. Snappy and stressed out – You’ve turned into an angry stress head, usually cool and calm, you find yourself becoming increasingly irritated and angry. Even the small stuff, you wouldn’t (usually) have batted an eyelid at, has got you biting people’s heads off. You’ve been snapping at everyone at home and at work and your patience with your boss and senior officials is wearing thin.
8. You’ve seen the light – Fear is no longer holding you back.You know you were destined for something else, but fear has kept you from making the change. You keep telling yourself, if it isn’t broken you don’t have to fix it, but deep down you desperately want to make a change and step out of your comfort zone into your greatness!
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